Why Princess Diana’s Evening Routine Put Her at Odds With the Royal Family
The Princess of Wales’ nighttime regimen reportedly broke tradition.

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A chef who worked for Princess Diana offered a rare glimpse into her daily life, revealing that the beloved royal’s dedication to her beauty sleep often conflicted with the rest of the family’s schedules.
Darren McGrady, who worked for the Princess of Wales until her death at age 36 in 1997, told InStyle that her nightly habits often put her at odds with the late-evening agendas expected of senior royals.
Diana, who married the then-Prince Charles in 1981, liked to “be in bed at 8 p.m. at the latest,” a routine consistent with her equally early mornings, McGrady said.

Diana, Princess of Wales, poses in a glamorous pale-blue gown at the Cannes Film Festival in 1987.
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“The princess was also an early bird, so she liked to get up early, around 7 a.m.,” the chef explained.
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To ensure she was tucked in before her self-imposed curfew, Diana reportedly took her bath before dinner, often arriving for her evening meal in a bathrobe with her hair still damp.

Diana Spencer married Prince Charles, now King Charles III, in a highly publicized wedding in 1981.
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“She would often pop her head into the kitchen and tell me she was going for a bath, so would be ready for dinner in 30 minutes,” McGrady told InStyle. “She’d later come into the kitchen in a white toweling robe, bare feet, with wet hair. She looked stunning and amazing.”
Diana’s strict bedtime routine often dictated the palace dinner schedule, though it frequently clashed with the routines of other members of the royal family, including Prince Charles and Queen Elizabeth II.

Prince Charles, then the Prince of Wales, and Diana, Princess of Wales, smile with their sons, Prince William & Prince Harry, in the wildflower meadow at Highgrove in England.
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“Dinner for her was 6:30 p.m., but if the royal family were dining, she couldn’t go to eat or go to bed at her usual time,” McGrady recalled to the outlet.
Those lifestyle conflicts were especially troubling for the Princess of Wales during the royal family’s annual summer stay at Balmoral Castle in Scotland, where dinners and evening activities frequently stretched until 11 p.m.

In a portrait taken at Balmoral Castle in Scotland on September 20, 1979, Queen Elizabeth II poses with her husband, Prince Philip, the Duke of Edinburgh, and their three sons: Prince Edward, Prince Charles, and Prince Andrew.
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Sir William Heseltine, the former Private Secretary to Queen Elizabeth II, previously recalled that “for Diana, the long royal evenings were agony.”
The late Queen, who reportedly preferred staying up late, often hosted dinners beginning around 8 p.m.
“Diana was driven to such extremes that she’d excuse herself and go to bed, which was thought to be rather bad form, going to bed before the Queen,” Heseltine reportedly said.

Princess Diana appears sleepy at the Victoria and Albert Museum for the Splendours of the Gonzagas Exhibition Gala in 1981, where she wore a pale blue chiffon evening gown designed by Bellville Sassoon.
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It wasn’t just her mother-in-law who liked to stay up—Charles, too, has been described as a night owl, often working past midnight during that time.
“This is a man who has dinner ridiculously late at night,” Prince Harry said in a 2018 BBC documentary honoring his father’s 70th birthday.

Prince Charles and Princess Diana pose for a portrait during their honeymoon at Balmoral Castle in the Scottish Highlands in 1981.
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Harry continued, “And then he goes to his desk later that night and will fall asleep on his notes to the point where he’ll wake up with a piece of paper stuck to his face.”
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